Getting rejected for confusing my humility to be feminine!

I mean all I said was, "in initial days you gotta be careful and balance to save yourself from getting hurt", well basically that. Girl was good looking and very confident in nature. I admire that quality. I was humble and conversation were okayish.

I did see some red flags, in the first conversation she brought up the property angle, implying via a story on how her friend's husband recently bought a flat. Other signs like losing 2k in poker game isn't a big deal and how much money is involved in maintaining herself. Not letting me speak or complete sentences and never initiating any conversation, never inquiring about my life. How much she is into business even though she is doing a job now she wanna do business full time which requires capital. She even shared that she is talking to 2 more guys. Her ex still tries to talk to her and she told me all the things her ex did for her. It made me cry for the guy, I left that guy's pain, how much he has done for her and yet this girl wants something else in life.

But I thought okay, let's give it time, let's take this at it's pace and get there before I can start sharing with her about my life. I guess since I signed up for AM, I'm anyway gonna compete with random men for her affection. And yes, she was pretty and bold, not gonna lie, and if a girl like that enter an AM scene she is gonna get full undivided attention from men.

2 weeks it went fine and then out of blue, in the morning yesterday I get the message. "I will not move forward". Bruh, just a plan statement. Now for a moment I thought let it be, but I wasn't able to concentate on work with this randomness. So eventually I asked her if she thought my efforts were lacking. To my surprise I'm told, "I have feminine quality and she likes to be the only feminine energy in the house" and she expects a man to masculine.

Okay, I work in IT, I read a little, I do have interest in arts and enjoy anime. I'm naturally soft spoken and articulated cuz 12 years of working in IT does that to you. I don't drink or party. Is that feminine?

She never bothered to understand me to begin with, to even pass a judgment like that. Should I have told her I beat up my ex's boyfriend in public? Does that qualify as masculine?

I'm just naturally pissed, cuz as soon as I start hoping something good is going to happen this stupidity is pulled by life. Now I'm burned for another few weeks easily before I can even think about talking to someone else. Hell.